♥♥The Little Things That Matter The Most♥♥

I have always been this person who has always wanted to make it big in whatever that I got myself into. Although I have never wanted to be in the spotlight simply because I hate the attention I usually get. However there was always this urge in me, that if I do something it should be grand and huge so that it is acknowledged in that very way by the rest of the world.The small little things that came my way really didn't make a big deal.
We all have dreams and aspirations, that are most often been an absolute part of our life and these dreams are the one's that motivate us to move on and turn them to reality. But in many cases in our lives we do not achieve success in the most desired way, that we thought, was without doubt possible. When these dreams are not met. We tend to lose faith and give up. Our attitude has always been to reach that destination,that final goal; and somehow in the process we don't really enjoy the journey before reaching that destination. We do not realize the small instances and experiences on this path of ours that have truly made us grow as individuals and thought us living our lives as we know it. But we are too busy concentrating on those huge dreams that we loose sight of the little joys and pleasures life throws at us all along our way.

I often wonder, how is it that people neglect these little experiences, especially because these little things that happen to us, matter the most. I have always faced this huge dilemma of how to express myself by being as sophistical as possible so that the person i am expressing my ideas or feelings to, will not just clearly understand what I am trying to say, but also be impressed by the way I am expressing myself. However now i have come to realize, that sometimes saying the simplest of words in the most truthful way right from your heart means a lot and would weigh a thousand fold more then that I would normally do.

We need to sit back and ponder for a while and think about the situations that we come across in our lives. If we decide to overate these situations by probably thinking that it is best left unperturbed, it would eventually complicate things and thus would make things much more difficult to handle. One needs to understand that when we give importance to these little joys, we eventually tend to be much more happy and enjoy our life with these little spurts of joy.

By simply understanding what another person you care for is going through, you create this amazing incomparable bond of respect,trust and love that frankly speaking matters the most. Because someday when all the other unimportant desires have run out, it would be these emotions that would keep us together and more importantly provide us with a reason to live on.

So even if we miss out on life's big prizes, we are still eligible for the little things that really matter. I call them life's small pleasures that make big differences. It could be a simple pat on the back, or maybe a hug from a best friend, a full moon, a glorious sunset, a chat with one we like a lot, a delicious meal, a whole hearted laugh, an ice cream, a shower in the rain, a silent night on the terrace, a slow walk on an empty road with he person we love the most....(*blush*)
So don't worry about missing out life's grand rewards, enjoy its tiny delights....because they the ones that matter the most.......... :)