Share if you can't Bear--→ılılılı

Sometimes we sit & wonder....why do bad things happen to us??....and on one such really bad day,I took off to the jetty and needed to find answers to several of the questions life had thrown at me. I sat by the jetty and felt the humid breeze blow over my face that had apparently lost its expressions for a while. If only there was something I could do about it. And no matter how much I tried I couldn't get that smile on my face because I was too busy thinking how to fake it.

This is what most of us would've experienced some time or another in our lives. We come across a situation we cant really deal with & refuse to admit it. We hamper ourselves from taking a deep breath and starting over....
We make unjustified assumptions that nothing can turn out right anymore....and we don't even consider the alternative of discussing this situation with someone that would listen...But doing this has its pros and cons. When we discuss our lives and make it this open book to read from, we tend to think that we have become vulnerable to the other person, and this very thought can work against us....But if there is worthwhile trust, miracles can happen....
This sharing is very important as we get a whole new perspective to our problems and the solution at large because we would never have been able to look at it from the angle the person we are discussing it with is looking right now. And this perspective may not be the most optimum one, but it definitely would trigger a stimulus within us to think and act differently.
So the next time you have a problem, dont just bank on yourself....there's always a person that might just understand you more than yourself.....cheers!!!